For the past few years, my home in EvE has been everywhere. Wherever there was can mining, I would be there.
Where there were stupid people doing plexes in 0.0 with an obvious wartarget or at least a neutral in local. I was there.
Was I terribly effective? Heck no. There's only so much time I could devote to my pass time of punishing the stupid. Did I make someone's day bad..Yes. But I always made myself as much at home as was possible. A cache of ships as near as I could get. Probes, a hauler, various tools of punishment. My inventory list is awesome. Enough combat and hauling to start a megacorporation. Over 250 stations with a pvp capable ship and a hauler. Over 90% of empire covered and visited at least once.
Home was everywhere. And then I went into retirement. And I've anchored myself to a new 'home'.
It isn't a bad home. I've already found neighbors who don't like me and are also stupid so they are easy to take advantage of. I can mission and mine. I've even got corpmates now who mission and mine, and we've done it together. For the first time in a long while (Probably since home was Dodixie, and Suddenly Ninjas was young and being bothersome) I've got folks of like minds to do something with on a continuing basis.
And that my friends, is where home is really. I suppose Home is where you can fulfill your purpose. Be it a doggerel scoundrel existence or something more puritanical. Your home is where you can *do* that thing. Is your thing tilting at windmills? Taking over deep space? Being a foot soldier? A scammer? Your home is where you can *do* that, in your own space and time. Log in, do your thing, get closer towards your goal in your own place. You may be sharing with 2000 people (Looking at you Jita Scammers and Traders right here) or 20 people (My new home) But, it is *yours* because that is where you can fulfill your needs, the *why* of your eve existence.